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Can only a Dominant set limits?
One of our community asked us a question and it was a great one! Question: I'm new to this, so I don't really understand the...
Discovering Daddy Owl’s Story Nest: A Special Storybook Series for Littles
In the soft corners of our community, we’re always seeking nurturing tools that speak to our hearts — especially the tenderest little parts. That’s why...
Nurturing Your Dominant: Tips for a Thriving BDSM Relationship
In a BDSM dynamic, caring for your Dominant isn’t just about the physical aspects—it’s about understanding their needs, respecting their boundaries, and nurturing the dynamic...
Unveiling the Differences: Submissive vs. Bottom in BDSM
Delving into the Nuances of BDSM: Submissive vs. Bottom The world of BDSM, often shrouded in mystery and misconceptions, thrives on clear communication and understanding....
Be in Prime Shape for Submissive Positions by Getting Fit
Learn about how a Dominant and submissive can incorporate positive and healthy exercise and nutrition tasks or rituals into their dynamic while maintaining their D/s...
Characteristics of a Natural Submissive
In the intricate tapestry of the BDSM lifestyle, where consent, communication, and trust form the pillars of intimate connection, the role of a submissive...
Submissive fitness - being the best YOU for your Dominant
If you have ever being in an intense scene with your Dom and the next day (or next few days) not been able to move,...
A submissive's guide to ownership: trust, belonging and BDSM
As a submissive, do you ever wonder why you like being a submissive? Why do you like being ordered around, choked, put on a leash,...
Online D/s relationships - all you need to know about being in a cyber D/s relationship
Why be in a cyber/online D/s relationship? (Original article from https://bdsmunveiled.blogspot.com/2012/11/cyber-bdsm-relationships.html?zx=4785ebcbae96ff5b#axzz6C6PRwO6h) If you are exploring BDSM on the Internet, chances are at some point, you will...
24/7 submission and how it looks for one submissive!
(Original article from https://www.kinkly.com/2/8900/sex-tips/bdsm/a-day-in-the-life-of-a-247-submissive and written by the amazing Kayla Lords) I'm a submissive in a 24/7 Dominance and submission (D/s) relationship. If you read that and imagine that...
BDSM and Aftercare: How to Support the Tops and Doms in Your Life
Aftercare looks different for everyone, but it starts when we put aside assumptions about others’ needs and ask, with sincerity, “How are you feeling? How...
The Uninhibited Truth About What It Means To Be A Submissive In A BDSM Relationship
(Original article from https://thoughtcatalog.com/anabelle-bernard-fournier/2016/10/the-uninhibited-truth-about-what-it-means-to-be-a-submissive-in-a-bdsm-relationship/) What I like in bed is directly related to the kind of relationships and life I want—and yes, I’m kinky to the...
The difference between a slave and a submissive
(Original article from https://www.katekinsey.com/the-difference-between-a-slave-and-a-submissive.html) Well, if I had a dime for every time someone asked this, I’d be writing this on a laptop on a beach...
Submissives with sensitive souls
(Excerpt from https://www.katekinsey.com/blog--letters/is-it-normal-to-be-so-sensitive) Submissives are by nature eager to please, so they are especially sensitive to correction from their dominant. Actually, we don't even need to...
Why a submissive craves being tied up and spanked!
What happens in your head when you get flogged? Scientific researchers and professional dominatrixes talk about endorphins and all the other neurochemicals that make bondage...
i am a submissive woman
Being a submissive woman to the most amazing Master is THE best feeling in the world. Be proud to be who are you are!
What Does Being Owned Mean To Me?
When you are a true submissive, there is nothing better than knowing you are owned. Every single bit of you belongs to your Dominant.
Feeling Needy after Scenes
It is okay to feel whatever you are feeling after play. This article explores some of the different emotions you might experience. It is okay...
Why submissives need D/s
There are huge assumptions and presumptions made about those who engage in the D/s lifestyle. There is nothing wrong with us. We are no weirder...
A woman's perspective of the D/s lifestyle
There is a misconception from those naive to the lifestyle and those that rely on media portrayal as to what BDSM is. Being in a...
Submissive Etiquette in Formal Training
It is a useful skill for a Dominant to train a submissive in different skills he would like her to have. It is also so...
The journey to complete surrender
This article is dedicated to Lord Colm and the memory of 'jade' and all of the hours and hours of labour and love she poured...
Difficulties turning your boyfriend into your Dom: tips for submissives (OR Dom me, dammit and hurry up!)
For a submissive in a vanilla relationship who wants their partner to be their Dominant, all sorts of difficulties can arise IF you are not...
What to look for in a Dominant
There are often articles written about qualities that a submissive should strive for, and this article covers qualities that a good dominant should have: trustworthiness,...
Some Thoughts about Submission
This is one submissive's view on what submission is and touches on the different types of people who fall into the definition of submissive. When you...
A Submissive Journal
Keeping a journal can be such an important part of a dom and sub relationship. lovely does writings for Master after each time she sees him and...
Advice for New Submissives
This article covers some very important points for new submissives, from the rights that you have, tips on behaviour and some conceptions and misconceptions.
Am I a submissive? I don't like pain and punishment
There is so much more to being a submissive and submitting to your Dominant than pain and punishment. You can be 100% submissive and not...
Yoga & Meditation for Your Sub
There are so many beautiful positions for submissives to do at their Master's request. Many of the yoga positions are similar to the submissive/slave positions....
Traits of a Good Submissive
The types of traits that may suggest someone is a future submissive.
How to please your Dominant
What happens in a Dominant/submissive relationship? One thing that happens, or should happen, is that the Dominant learns about the submissive. The Dominant should always...