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The Science of Pain and Pleasure in BDSM

Pain and pleasure may seem like opposites, but in BDSM, they often go hand in hand. Many people enjoy the rush of impact play, the...

Rope Bondage for Beginners: Essential Knots, Safety, and Sensation Play

Rope bondage is one of the most visually stunning and versatile forms of BDSM play. Whether you're into simple restraints, intricate Shibari ties, or full-body...

BDSM 101: Impact Play for the very beginner or kink curious

Impact play is one of the most popular BDSM activities, and for good reason. Whether it’s a light, teasing slap or an intense, stinging strike,...

BDSM 101: Temperature Play - Your Comprehensive Guide to Turning up the Heat or Cooling Things Down!

Ever run an ice cube along your skin on a hot day? Or sink into a warm bath when you’re freezing? That rush you feel—that...

BDSM 101: Paddles (how to choose and use a paddle)

BDSM paddles are a staple in many beginner kink kits, often found in basic forms. However, there's a vast array of paddles available, featuring different...

BDSM 101: Exploring Sensory Deprivation Play

Sensory deprivation, also known as sensory play, might sound intimidating, but it's more accessible than you might think. What is Sensory Deprivation? Sensory deprivation involves...

Understanding Consensual Non-Consent (CNC Play)

Consensual non-consent (CNC) is a complex and often misunderstood aspect of BDSM (Bondage, Discipline, Dominance, Submission, Sadism, and Masochism) that involves a dynamic where a...

Dive into Sensation Play: Elevate Your Senses in BDSM

Hey there, fellow explorers of the BDSM realm! Are you ready to embark on a journey into the exhilarating world of sensation play? This mind-blowing...

Exploring Sensation Play: Heighten Your Senses in BDSM

In the realm of BDSM, there are various avenues for exploration, each offering its own unique pleasures. Among these is sensation play, an exhilarating practice...

SKILLS 101: Making a girl squirt

What is squirting? Squirting is female ejaculation and is not urine! Studies found a Skene's gland, near the G-spot, which can release fluid containing prostate...

Budget BDSM + Playing in Lockdown!

We are living in a crazy world where the last few years have been full of lockdowns, weather events and uncertainties. Some people might have...

SKILLS 101: Rope Bondage - Safety Basics

This is a great resource for those just starting out with rope bondage. With awesome safety information for beginners and a collection of great links...

SKILLS 101: Canes

Newbie BDSM-ers might think of caning as old-school punishment, but using a cane in an impact play scene is an amazing tool and can leave...

SKILLS 101: Floggers

To see our flogger collection, CLICK HERE We have scoured the internet for the best resources about floggers and compiled them in one place for...

The beauty of bondage: all about suspension

What is suspension bondage and why do we do it and love it? Read to find out more.

(Original article from https://www.devianceanddesire.com/2015/06/turning-pain-into-pleasure/) Pain is a huge part of BDSM. We seem to talk about it all the time. But, language being the blunt instrument...