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Subspace & Domspace: The Psychological Highs of BDSM Play
BDSM isn’t just about physical sensation—it’s also a deeply psychological and emotional experience. For many, scenes can lead to intense mental states known as subspace...
Introduction to being a Dominant
This article is for those men or women who want to know how to be a Dominant or Domme. Everyone has different kinks, desires, fantasies and fetishes...
Tips for New Baby Doms/Dommes - great things to say and do!
There are some things a Dominant can say that just sends their submissives legs to jelly with quivery anticipation and lust! These are some ideas...
Tips for a Baby Domme (or New Mistress)
Lots of tips for brand new Mistresses!
How to be a Dom: Orders and Rules
This article will give new Doms some ideas of rules for the submissive, what rules to avoid and how to enforce them.
From Cyber to Real Life (from the perspectives of a Dominant and a submissive)
There are many things to consider and to think about before moving from an online D/s relationship to a real life 24/7 relationship between a...
What should I look for in a submissive? A Dominant's point of view
There are many desirable traits that a submissive will have that will make her appealing to your Dominant side. This article covers some of the...
To Sub or Not to Sub (A Guide for Dominants)
Some may say that the best doms start out as submissives. For some this may be true, but for others not at all. The measure...
The Closed-Minded Dominant Syndrome
This is an article by Lord Colm where he defines the 'closed minded dominant syndrome' from his perspective and highlights the negative impact on relationships...
Getting into a Dominant Headspace
Some D/s relationships may involve a 'vanilla' relationship with BDSM bedroom time. If that is the case, you may need triggers or rituals to help...
Being the Dominant She Needs
To one degree or another, the majority of women in the world are sexually submissive. The ones who crave to be dominated will at some...