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Can only a Dominant set limits?
One of our community asked us a question and it was a great one! Question: I'm new to this, so I don't really understand the...
A submissive's guide to ownership: trust, belonging and BDSM
As a submissive, do you ever wonder why you like being a submissive? Why do you like being ordered around, choked, put on a leash,...
Online D/s relationships - all you need to know about being in a cyber D/s relationship
Why be in a cyber/online D/s relationship? (Original article from https://bdsmunveiled.blogspot.com/2012/11/cyber-bdsm-relationships.html?zx=4785ebcbae96ff5b#axzz6C6PRwO6h) If you are exploring BDSM on the Internet, chances are at some point, you will...
Difficulties turning your boyfriend into your Dom: tips for submissives (OR Dom me, dammit and hurry up!)
For a submissive in a vanilla relationship who wants their partner to be their Dominant, all sorts of difficulties can arise IF you are not...
What to look for in a Dominant
There are often articles written about qualities that a submissive should strive for, and this article covers qualities that a good dominant should have: trustworthiness,...
A Submissive Journal
Keeping a journal can be such an important part of a dom and sub relationship. lovely does writings for Master after each time she sees him and...
Advice for New Submissives
This article covers some very important points for new submissives, from the rights that you have, tips on behaviour and some conceptions and misconceptions.
Am I a submissive? I don't like pain and punishment
There is so much more to being a submissive and submitting to your Dominant than pain and punishment. You can be 100% submissive and not...
Traits of a Good Submissive
The types of traits that may suggest someone is a future submissive.
How to please your Dominant
What happens in a Dominant/submissive relationship? One thing that happens, or should happen, is that the Dominant learns about the submissive. The Dominant should always...