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Subspace & Domspace: The Psychological Highs of BDSM Play
BDSM isn’t just about physical sensation—it’s also a deeply psychological and emotional experience. For many, scenes can lead to intense mental states known as subspace...
Discipline ideas for your submissive
Discipline in BDSM can often evoke a sense of dread similar to that experienced in childhood when punished by parents or reprimanded by a boss....
Rewarding Your Submissive: A Guide to Fostering a Healthy and Happy D/s Relationship
Rewarding Your Submissive: A Guide to Fostering a Healthy and Happy D/s Relationship Dominant/submissive (D/s) relationships are a complex and intimate form of partnership. At...
Nurturing your D/s dynamic with maintenance
In BDSM dynamics, the term "maintenance" takes on a special significance, signifying the intentional care and attention needed to sustain a healthy and fulfilling relationship...
The importance of BDSM rituals to deepen dynamics
In the world of BDSM, where power dynamics and intense connections define relationships, rituals emerge as powerful tools that extend beyond the realm of mere...
Online and Long Distance D/s relationships - Punishments and Rewards!
Navigating a long distance or online Dom/sub relationship can have its challenges, but with overcoming challenges comes rewards! This article has some ideas for punishments...
Ten things subs want their Dom to know
(Original article from https://slapassformotivation.wordpress.com/2015/08/04/ten-things-subs-want-their-doms-to-know-by-miapiccolina-from-fetlife-com/) 1. We love to serve. If You want or need something, please ask us to get it for You. It actually hurts...
Introduction to being a Dominant
This article is for those men or women who want to know how to be a Dominant or Domme. Everyone has different kinks, desires, fantasies and fetishes...
Tips for New Baby Doms/Dommes - great things to say and do!
There are some things a Dominant can say that just sends their submissives legs to jelly with quivery anticipation and lust! These are some ideas...
Tips for a Baby Domme (or New Mistress)
Lots of tips for brand new Mistresses!
D/s, Why She Loves Being a Sub
This writing has been on a few different websites but it has been written beautifully and was very special to read. It covers so many...
Navigating 24/7 Dominance and submission
When you are in a 24/7 D/s relationship, it is okay to need breaks from being Dominant and submissive ... it does not mean that...
How to be a Dom: Orders and Rules
This article will give new Doms some ideas of rules for the submissive, what rules to avoid and how to enforce them.
Submissives with abuse in their past
Often submissives may have found themselves in abusive relationships and this can come back to haunt them in future relationships with their Dominant. This article...
From Cyber to Real Life (from the perspectives of a Dominant and a submissive)
There are many things to consider and to think about before moving from an online D/s relationship to a real life 24/7 relationship between a...
Collaring Ceremony and Ceremony of the Roses
Being collared and owned is a feeling that so many submissives crave. Whilst not essential and each dynamic is unique and does not need to...
What should I look for in a submissive? A Dominant's point of view
There are many desirable traits that a submissive will have that will make her appealing to your Dominant side. This article covers some of the...
A View from the Top: A Dominant's Perspective on what it is to be a Dominant
What is a Dominant and what does it mean to be Dominant? Just as with submissives, it will mean something different to everyone but there...
To Sub or Not to Sub (A Guide for Dominants)
Some may say that the best doms start out as submissives. For some this may be true, but for others not at all. The measure...
The Closed-Minded Dominant Syndrome
This is an article by Lord Colm where he defines the 'closed minded dominant syndrome' from his perspective and highlights the negative impact on relationships...
Some clarification on punishment
Punishment is an integral part of every D/s relationship but Dominants need to be careful in what punishment is given, how it is given and...
Benefits of position training
Submissive position training and being able to use positions during your time together is so beneficial physically and mentally. This article discusses the physical benefits...
What do I need from my Dominant? The Submissive Owner's Manual
This article is dedicated to Lord Colm and the memory of 'jade' and all of the hours and hours of labour and love she poured...
Getting into a Dominant Headspace
Some D/s relationships may involve a 'vanilla' relationship with BDSM bedroom time. If that is the case, you may need triggers or rituals to help...
Rewarding your submissive
Submissives love to receive rewards from their Dominant, but these rewards can come in many forms. The more detail you can get from your submissive...
Our affect on a Sub Emotions
"Emotions of a submissive" is a large topic. It is impossible to cover all of the emotions a submissive will experience. It is equally impossible to...
Being the Dominant She Needs
To one degree or another, the majority of women in the world are sexually submissive. The ones who crave to be dominated will at some...