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How to Negotiate a Scene
BDSM scenes can be thrilling, intense, and deeply satisfying, but only when both partners are on the same page. That’s where negotiation comes in. Whether...
Dipping into Kink: A 10 Step Guide for Vanilla Couples Exploring BDSM Together
For many couples, the idea of incorporating BDSM into their relationship may initially seem like uncharted territory. However, with open communication, trust, and a willingness...
Turn it on, turn it off. Play up, play down. All about switches!
What is a switch? A switch is someone who loves a little bit of Domming and a little bit of subbing and can do a...
BDSM 101: The Ultimate Beginner's Guide to BDSM
Want to spice things up a bit in the bedroom? Been naughty and feel in need of punishment? Exploring the exciting world of BDSM might...
Everything you want to know about Dominant and submissive relationships
Being in a D/s relationship in the BDSM lifestyle is AMAZING, as you will know if you are a Dom or a sub in one....
BDSM 101: Communication within a Dom and sub relationship
Communication, trust and honesty are the building blocks of a wonderful and successful BDSM relationship! If your submissive is acting strangely or not like their...
How to tell your partner you are kinky! And how to ask your partner to be your Dominant!
For kinksters entering into a new relationship (Original article from https://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/advice/a6889/how-to-tell-your-partner-about-kinks/) There's a fine art to introducing your new sex partner to your kinks. Showing up...
BDSM 101: Top 10 Toys for Beginners
It can be overwhelming when you first take an interest in BDSM to see all the different toys and products available. This is a list...
The Importance of COMMUNICATION
Communication is the single most important aspect in BDSM. I don't care if you're only into spankings by strangers or you're in a 24/7 Master/slave...
Introduction to BDSM for Doms/Dommes
This is a great introductory reading for those who are brand new to the BDSM lifestyle.
BDSM 101: Changing from Vanilla to the D/s lifestyle
Are you in a 'vanilla' couple and wanting to spice things up by introducing a bit of kink? Or maybe you want to try turning...
Long Distance D/s relationships and activities to do together
Many Dominants and submissives might find themselves in a long-distance relationship, whether it is because you met online and have never met or geographically you...