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BDSM 101: Paddles (how to choose and use a paddle)
BDSM paddles are a staple in many beginner kink kits, often found in basic forms. However, there's a vast array of paddles available, featuring different...
SKILLS 101: Rope Bondage - Safety Basics
This is a great resource for those just starting out with rope bondage. With awesome safety information for beginners and a collection of great links...
SKILLS 101: Canes
Newbie BDSM-ers might think of caning as old-school punishment, but using a cane in an impact play scene is an amazing tool and can leave...
SKILLS 101: Floggers
To see our flogger collection, CLICK HERE We have scoured the internet for the best resources about floggers and compiled them in one place for...
The beauty of bondage: all about suspension
What is suspension bondage and why do we do it and love it? Read to find out more.
Turning Pain into Pleasure
(Original article from https://www.devianceanddesire.com/2015/06/turning-pain-into-pleasure/) Pain is a huge part of BDSM. We seem to talk about it all the time. But, language being the blunt instrument...
Orgasm Control
Orgasm control can be used in BDSM training in two ways - to delay the submissive's orgasm, teaching them to hold their orgasm until permission...
SKILLS 101: Sensory Deprivation
Taking away your submissive's senses can be the most amazing freeing for them because of the loss of control and can take anticipation to new...
SKILLS 101: Clips and Clamps
There are so many different types of nipple clamps out there ... but how do you use them, where do you use them and what...
How to Prevent Bruising (for those who can't have or don't want marks)
This is an interesting article, because for lovely being bruised by Master is just the best feeling ever! It is a reminder of who she belongs to...
Mastering the dynamics of thud and sting
All impact toys in BDSM play can be used in many different ways from the lightest sensual touch to very rough intense play. This article...