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Conceptions and Misconceptions: Breaking the Myths of BDSM
Here’s your article rewritten in a more casual, human-sounding tone while keeping the key points intact: BDSM: Busting Myths and Understanding the Reality BDSM—short for...
How to explain BDSM to my friends
Deciding whether to discuss your BDSM lifestyle with people outside the kink community, often referred to as "vanilla" individuals, is a personal choice. You are...
Kink Yoga
(Original article from https://stylecaster.com/kink-yoga/) While it may sound odd at first, BDSM and yoga really aren’t that different in terms of mindfulness, an altered state of consciousness and...
Get fit in your D/s relationship with a forced exercise ritual!
(Original article from http://www.kinkweekly.com/article-dexx/bdsm-scene-ideas-forced-exercise/) Being in Los Angeles, we have the advantage of many many types of dungeons, events, classes, and munches. But what if you...
BDSM 101: Workout Kink
There are truly kinks in all parts of life ... one which you may be familiar with or are itching to get into is the...
Fitness for BDSM pets!
Being fit is not only beneficial to your overall health, but have you tried being a kitten or puppy for hours? Being on all fours,...
BDSM Sex Education
(Original article from https://boldpleasures.com/featured/bdsm-training-sex-education-revamped/) Kink and BDSM have always been considered a taboo. However, with the rise of the “50 Shades of Grey phenomenon, it is...
BDSM 101: Playing Safely and Understanding Risks in BDSM Play
Playing in all sorts of kinky ways and being in the BDSM lifestyle is not without its risks. That’s just a matter of fact! This...
Integrating The D/s Lifestyle Into Everyday Life…
With thanks to Master Arcane for allowing us to republish his article (Source: http://arcaneadvice.com/all-lessons-a-z/integrating-the-lifestyle-into-everyday-life/) A submissive new to the idea of Living The BDSM D/s Lifestyle...
How to explain BDSM to your family
(Original article from https://offbeathome.com/explain-bdsm-to-your-family/) I've been writing about kink online for over a decade. Sometimes, like when discussing the loving depiction of BDSM in The Addams Family,...
Basics of Consent in BDSM (SSC/RACK/PRICK/CNC)
SSC, RACK, PRICK and CNC ... confused? Read this article to find out about the different philosophies of consent in the BDSM lifestyle.
Keeping Your Toys Clean and Safe
It is really important for the safety of Dominants and submissives to keep your toys thoroughly clean, particularly if the Dominant is polyamorous and toys...
The Wrong Kind of D/s Cyber Relationships
Having an online D/s relationship might be the only thing you want, but beware. This article covers some red flags for you to look out...
Having more than SAFEWORDS to feel safe
Having safewords is an important part of a BDSM dynamic (unless you have negotiated and consented not to have them in your relationship). While it...
Aftercare - Floating Back to Earth
Aftercare is the last act of the SM drama. It is the culmination, the pulling together of all loose ends, the finishing touches, the final...