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B
- Bathroom control - when the Dominant controls the submissives bathroom habits. Not to be done to the extreme though as that can be dangerous
- Begging - a kink for begging and pleading (ie. to have sex, to orgasm, to perform an act)
- Bimbofication - the process of making someone into a bimbo or being a bimbo
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Blindfolds - bondage that blocks a person's vision (see amaurophilia)
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Bondage - restraint of a person either with physical items or instruction (eg mental bondage). Can be full body or just a single body part
- Body modification - kink for changing the appearance of a body eg. tattoos to piercings
- Branding - marking someone with a word or symbol using heat
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Breath play - this is a type of edge play that is DANGEROUS - choking and limiting breath
- Breast/nipple torture - the breast equivalent of CBT - hitting, pinching, bondage and other methods of inflicting pain onto the breasts and nipples
- Breast/nipple worship - worshipping someone's breasts or nipples
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Caning - hitting someone with a rod/cane)
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CBT - cock and ball torture. This can be dangerous and a form of punishment. It an involve shoes, sounding, stretching, impact toys
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Chastity - a fetish where someone's access to their genitals is blocked eg. cock cages or chastity belts
- Choking - a type of breath play which is edge play and DANGEROUS. Do not choke someone especially not until they pass out - this can lead to brain damage
- Claustrophilia - the opposite of claustrophobia, so the arousal of being confined in small spaces
- Clothed sex (endytophilia) - a kink for having sex while fully or partially clothed (eg. lifting up a skirt or dress or pushing underwear to the side
- Cock worship - verbal, physical and mental adoration of a penis, including strap ons
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Collaring - for submissives, the act of wearing a collar shows submission, loyalty and/or devotion to their Dominant. It may be worn just in play or discreetly in public
- Consensual non-consent - play where both parties have given prior consent for activities that may appear to involve non-consent eg. rape play. It must be done with prior negotiations and consent and safewords should always still be in play
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Corsetry - the act of wearing a corset to change the shape and size of a body
- Cross-dressing - dressing like the opposite sex
- Cunnilingus - receiving oral sex as a woman or giving it as a man or woman (pussy worship)
- Cupping - small cups or jars suction to the skin resulting in light bruising and a tight feeling
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Dacryphilia - arousal caused by crying or tears
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Degradation - being spoken down to or acts of humiliation
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Diapers - usually related to age play
- Discipline - giving or receiving punishment for perceived or defined infractions
- Dirty talking - maybe a kink? Do it in intense extreme ways and you can consider it a fetish!
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Double penetration - penetration of a woman's vagina and ass at the same time (whether with toys or penises or both)
- DVP - double vaginal penetration. Two penises or one penis and a toy in the vagina
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E
- Edge play - any fetish or kink that is more risky or extreme eg. breath play, choking, fire play, knife play, blood play
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Elastophilia - fetish for stretchy materials like spandex, silicone or latex
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Electric play - play safely with TENS units or violet wands
- Enemas - inserting a liquid like water into the anus to clean out the rectum usually as preparation for anal play but it could also be a form of punishment or control
- Exhibitionism - fetish for being naked with people watching
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- Face fucking - a rough mouth fucking which can lead to tears, gagging and vomiting
- Face sitting - a woman sitting on a man's face while he performs oral
- Face slapping - brings you to attention and corrects your mistakes
- Fellatio - not a kink or fetish but related to face fucking (blow job)
- Figging - using peeled ginger to create a burning sensation
- Fighting/wrestling - play fighting and wrestling is sexy!
- Fire play - edge play involving flames and fire. Play carefully!
- Fisting - penetration with a full hand
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Flogging (flagellation) - hitting someone with a flogger
- Food play - incorporating food into sexual activities eg. using someone as a table, covering someone's body with food and licking it off
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Foot fetish (podophilia) - enjoys feet sexually
- Frotting - rubbing of two penises together
- Furries - dressing as animals or humanoid animal creatures (this is not always a sexual fetish)
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Gags - form of mouth bondage
- Golden showers - piss play; watersports
- Group sex (polyiterophilia) - threesomes or group sex situations
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H
- Harpaxophiia - fetish for being robbed
- Helplessness - fetish for feeling helpless and a victim (sometimes in roleplay eg. robber, kidnapper and being saved)
- Hypnotism - could be a type of consensual nonconsent or roleplay with sex magician and assistant
- Hypoxia - fetish for being submerged under water to restrict breathing. This is very very DANGEROUS
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- Immobility - kink involving bondage and forced feeding
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Impact play - activities involving hitting with toys or hands
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Infantilism - type of ageplay where someone plays a baby eg. pacifiers, diapers, bottles
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K
- Katoptronophilia - fetish for having sex in front of mirrors
- Kagurumi - fetish for wearing anime masks
- Knife play - edge play involving knives or blades
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L
- Lactation - fetish about breastfeeding and suckling milk
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Latex/rubber - fetish for latex, PVC, rubber and similar materials!
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M
- Maschalagnia - fetish about arousal from armpits - kissing, licking, smelling or inserting penises into them
- Masochism - enjoyment of pain, punishment and torture
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Medical play - role play involving medical scenarios, implements and/or uniforms eg. doctor and patient
- Merinthophilia - fetish for bondage
- Mess fetish (hygrohphilia) - lovers of mess created by sexual fluids
- Mixophilia - kink to do with watching yourself having sex whether in a mirror or re-watching a video
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Mummification - someone is bound entirely or nearly entirely to prevent all movement
- Mysophilia - turned on by dirtied items eg. used underwear
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- Needle play - playing with needles
- Nonconsensual (see consensual nonconsent)
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O
- Odaxelagnia - kink for being bitten or biting
- Orgasm control or denial or forced orgasms - someone completely controlling their partner's orgasms
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P
- Penis humiliation - kink insulting a man's penis eg. size, appearance and performance
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Pegging - anally penetrating a male with a strapon
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Pet play - acting like a domesticated pet eg. kittens and puppies
- Phobofilia - sexual obsession with being afraid
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Pony play - a type of pet play where you act like a horse/pony
- Psychrocism - fetish related to being cold or using cold objects like ice cubes or cold dildos during sex
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Pteronphilia - kink for being tickled like by feathers
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R
- Rape fantasy - fetish for acting out a pretend rape (consensual nonconsent)
- Retifism - fetish for shoes and footwear
- Rhabdophilia - fetish for receiving physical beatings
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Ropework - kink for rope eg. kinbaku
- Rimming - giving or receiving rim jobs (licking anus or outside of anus)
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- Sadism - kink for providing pain (masochists and sadists make a good partnership)
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Sensation play - a light kink exploring sensations on teh skin eg. different textures or temperatures
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Sensory deprivation - play preventing someone from using one or more of their senses
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Sounding - kink for urethral sounds (a tube inserted into the male's urethra)
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Spanking - from light to extreme!
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Stockings - do you like lace-topped, visible seams, garter belts?
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Strap-on - fetish for using strap-ons to achieve anal, oral or vaginal penetration
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Suspension - using ropes or harnesses to suspend someone from the ground
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- Teasing - enjoying teasing as sexual gratification
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Tickling or tickle torture - those who enjoy surrendering control or struggling to retain it when being tickled, or being tickled to the point of urinating
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U
- Underwear fetish - men with this fetish will collect, wear or smell underwear
- Uniforms - can be a great tool to have in your roleplay scenarios
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V
- Vincilagnia - kink for being tied up and at the mercy of another person
- Voyerurism - kink for watching someone else while naked or engaged in sexual activity
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- Watersports - playing with urine, being peed on or urinating on another person
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Wax play - kink of having lit candles dripping wax onto skin
- Wet and messy (WAM) fetish - being soiled by food or other messes (also known as sploshing)
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- Zwischenstufe - sexual obsession with people of the same sex
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